Girl’s Best Friend

Friendship is the most vulnerable relationship that exists, it is most loved and even more hated kind of connection. You become friends easily and at times friends become worst foes people have ever seen. It’s difficult to understand the real depth of friendship if you are not actually a part of it. But there is kind of I know is more complex than any of which exists a “Girl – Boy Best Friendship”.

I we see it from the perspective of a boy they are mostly misunderstood as the girl’s boy friend. Sometimes they behave too girly too and mostly they end up doing all the tasks which in general scenario should be shared between two people. But this is just the panorama of a observer whereas reality is quite different.

A girl’s best boy friend (GBBF) is a unique species who has resolution to all the queries that comes in his friends mind howsoever silly, intellectual, technical or philosophical it is and if he is not able to do that by himself atleast he diverts the attention in which he awesome.

He never gets judgmental about the type of ball that is going to fall in his court from other end and he has all the tools to handle each and every one of them in most suitable and best possible way. They usually have an non-certified PHD in convincing their friends and converting the sadness in to smile.

A best friend is like single opening Pandora boxes which just accepts things and information and keeps it to them howsoever torture they face even in case of severe stomach aches. A word NO is deleted from their dictionary because even  if it exists its use will be worthless.

These are just a few thing which a GBBF does in return they share a strong connection between them which is only understood by the two of them.

Although they never share the physical connection between them but the souls and minds are connected the way it can’t be with anyone. They carry their relation in a very clean and pure manner which is beyond understanding of outside world or sometimes even their life partners.

We all are always in search of that one person who understand us they way we do ourselves, and when  a girl meets their GBBF’s that search ends post which starts the great saga of friendship and its stories which remains with them for all of their lives weather they remain connected or not.

There is no book to make someone your best friend nor even there are any rules, a girl can’t try to make a boy their best boy friend and a boy can’t act as being the one if he is not, They are just born to meet and be best friends.

You may fall in love many times, you will meet lot of people in a lifetime, the times will change and someday maybe the world will disappear for you, the stars will disappear for you but your best friend will always be there at outreach of your hand and if not then their memories will be enough to make you feel the most prized possession of whole universe.

Delhi: The First love

A poet once said “ Kaun jae Zauq, par dilli ki galiyan chodkar” , I never tried to search for its real meaning although I figured out my version for this phrase “Once you have lived in Delhi you will never be able to leave this place even if you do, it always stays with you”.

I have travelled almost one third of India in last few years and there was one common view which people had nobody likes Delhi specially those who have never been to Delhi or NCR, few were those also who used to live in capital once and now moved out they also have lot of complaints and comparison.

I never tried to argue with their thought about it, It was their perception, maybe they haven’t seen what I have felt. Or maybe the media and social network has succeeded in their act of defaming our beautiful city.

I Love Delhi, I was not born here , I don’t live their anymore , I don’t have list of reasons to justify my love for it , I just do it and miss it terribly. And howsoever I travel , relocate to best cities, meet new people I still can’t get that love out of my heart.

When I try to contemplate the reasons for it I remember the first time I fell in love and how it happened.

It happened just like that and nothing else in whole world matters at that time, we never judge the person with whom we fall in love and just follow our heart everything looks so contended even if it is hollow to outside world. Looks , future, job, family nothing comes in mind the only feelings that engulfs us  is our love , and that feeling stays with us forever howsoever more love we get in life but it always keep that special place within us.

That’s how loving Delhi is, we don’t judge it by its traffic, politics, weather, people or markets you fall in love with its soul after which nothing else matters.

The Flight of love

“Love at first sight” this statement has always been hyped too much, irrespective of that fact that does anything like this exists or not. As per my point of view it doesn’t.

As if you see a person and realize at the same moment of your life that she is the one with whom you want to have kids with. You can’t see a person match its cast, religion, family career and future and if it doesn’t match you decide that you can’t fly in love with her hence no connection.

It doesn’t works like this, not at all.

It’s a complete process which eventually turns out to be flying in love.

You meet and talk with someone post which a connection develops between the two that too to jus because of the way she loves life, talks, how she treats the world and most importantly you.

Later the connection transforms itself in to a friendship and then best friendship. During  all this time if the bonding grows stronger with each flying day and connection keep persists then you starts flying in love and not in a moment ,slowly and steadily.

Once it happens then world remind you of the parameters for being in love but by that time both of you have flown too far and high crossing the mountains and the clouds. Now only option left to us either reach for the moon leaving the world behind or fall in love….

                                                                                                                                                Dervish

The Fall...

It’s amazing to be in love.

Or as the world says to fall in love, you seem to be feeling the cold breeze and droplets of water touching your face while you are falling, we seem to enjoy every bit of that moment unaware of the fact what outcome the impact will bring. But then the journey seems so mesmerizing that nobody  cares of the destination, but it surely feels as if there is heaven down there.

In love the heart never stops beating twice than its normal pace , those random smiles started coming very often that too without any reason. Singing songs become more frequent and sometime you start jumping on the road while walking. 

We don’t realize what is happening with us, lot of questions, queries and confusion starts to pop up in our minds, the more we try to find out its solution the more heart starts beating. After sometime we realize that there is just one answer to all of this its time.

Everyone who has touched the ground has their own way or perception of describing the reality of love weather its heaven or hell or just another regular place. But I believe it’s always best to make your own stories, live through your own experiences rather than learning from  someone else's.

             Let’s fall in love, let’s do it together,

                      A fall of lifetime ….

               If you feel fear I will hold your hand,

         If you will feel cold I’ll give you my warmth,

         If obstacles come to you ill face them first…

                I will never let you get thirst…

            You just open your eyes and fall by my side,

                  And keep the whole world aside.

                      Lets fall in love ,

                    let’s do it together…..

A Social Animal

When I was a kid I read a line that “Human is a social animal” but I dint get its meaning then.  In due course of time I have seen and read about many two legged creatures with lot of mind quotient behaving lot worse than animals. On the other hand I saw people who were trying to make our world a better place to live. I tried doing something with the second lot.

Everyone was trying to change the world and as I got deeper into the system it made look like as if everyone was saying that they are trying but no one was actually doing it, mostly it was for changing their own social status and little of changing the world.

Then the question arise in my mind can the world actually be changed or it’s just a slogan by some activist to keep world busy in something other than their regular course of work, or if yes then how?

I took me time to work this out and during that I realized that its meaning varies from one person to other, some were trying to save soil, tree and water…others were trying to save humans from getting killed by other humans, some died while saving the tigers and polar bears while others were trying saving the ice for beers and penguins.

I was amazed to see that few people even doing their bit by traveling all around world on bicycle or running for bringing peace all over.

I also have to fit as a piece in this jigsaw puzzle as per my corners and size, so I chose smile and love.

I learnt that I loose myself completely whenever I am surrounded with kids who are trying to share everything with me and expecting nothing in return, Just few toffees are enough to make them happiest person of universe.  Every time I share some moments of knowledge with them I gained a lot more in return if not knowledge the definitely peace. Whenever I spend some hours of my life doing any social activity, I always find myself a more evolved human being than what I was before.

I read a theory in some book, it said if we consider age of Earth as 1 year then age of humans is 5 minutes and the world which we are seeing today is changed into this in last few seconds…Now its upto us to think and realize what took one year to come in its perfect form we spoiled it in few seconds and continuously doing it…I don’t know what will be the death time for it but I definitely wish to make it last a bit longer.

I will try my level best to make this world a better place to live for everyone, I wish that all of us try that too.