Flux OF Love

It was not a regular Saturday,Its Valentine week and a sad kind of feeling has surrounded Subi since morning she is feeling so alone from last few days and specially today. It was not like this when they started dating, Hrithik used to wait  for hours outside Subi’s office building so that once she finishes off with her work  and come out they can go out for late night movies and ice creams on chilling winter nights, and the weekend  always felt shorter because of the fun they do in those two days. Nothing can be more romantic than what was shared between those two at that time, but things have taken a U turn in last couple of months. The other side of the hedge is not greener anymore its just cold winters , lonely weekends and lot of silence between Subi and Hrithik.

Her mind was banging like anything thinking about all the anger and fights they both do now , love was nowhere seen between those two anymore , although she never wanted it to be this way after all he was her first love and the most amazing moments of her life till now was spent with him only. But she doesn’t feel that important to him anymore, he has got busy and  changed a lot in last couple of months whereas she is still waiting for a scoop of ice-cream after her office and couple of hours of his time during the weekends.

But the wait is not ending and the anger and hatred grows inside her with each day passing  lying in her bed thinking about all the memories and tapping on phone, She desperately wanted to talk to someone so she sent a text to her most trusted friend Akash,

“I am so much irritated ,sad and bored , Hrithik doesn’t give me time anymore.He has changed so much and I don’t know what to do ? ”

The reply which she received from him was one of the best and motivating things she has read in a very very long time,

Akash Said,

“Life is a continuous flux ,everything is changing and what doesn’t change becomes stale.

This applied to human beings also and so does to love and relationships, It is very simple to understand. When you started loving you both were too young , with no experience; how can  your love remains the same when now you have become a mature person ? Your love will also attain to some maturity, And when you will be old your love will have a different flavor to it. As relationship grows the depth and maturity of it can’t just be measured on basis of how much time you spend together rather than on how much you mean to each other. It might be a possibility that things have changed to much too fast in that case it gives you the chance to show him your love by being understanding , loving ,caring and by letting him do the things he wants and remember that this is also a phase which will pass. And one day it will be beautiful again, but it will always have ups and down it will have changes and not in just him but in yourself also.  Always remember that for a lighter and playful relationship  you should have lot of patience and empathy for your partner.”

And that night Subi slept Peacefully.

                                                                  This Valentines day,

Tear down the house of you Ego, Give your love one more chance.

Do not fuss or fight and get everything right.

Forget all the worries and create beautiful memories.

This Valentines day.

Lets Create Love, Lets fly in Love, Lets fall in love, Lets lost in Love.

A Letter to Captain

Hello Mr. Captain,

I want to thank you for serving the Indian Cricket team and making whole country feel proud and honor from time to time, Because as they say Cricket is not just a sports for Indians it’s a religion and War at same time.

There are some fish that cannot be caught; it’s not that they are faster or stronger than the other fishes in the ocean, they are just touched by something extra which is not visible from outside but that magic exists somewhere deep within their soul, You Mr. Mahendra Singh Dhoni was that kind of fish in the ocean of cricket.

I always loved listening stories from my mother and father about their childhood and youth like how they used to go to school by swimming and walking 10 miles, how my dad won the presidential elections of most prestigious college of country and how they used to follow cricket just through radio and still were a huge fan of it. I never had any such stories with me which I could tell my coming generations not before that night, this all changed when India lifted the Cricket World Cup - 2011 and the man who came as a knight in Shining armour that day was none other you . I was also among those million of cricket fans who were boozing and dancing that night on our capital roads with happiness beaming out of our throats with full throttle. That night dint felt like a just New Year eve it was as if we were doing a new millennium celebration. You are definitely the writer of the most amazing story of my life.

My family was a big cricket fan from always, me and my sister used to sit at one places for hours believing that India will lose if we change the position, and several other such gestures. But as we grown up the interest shifted to few other things and cricket took a second seat it was limited only to knowing the winning and losing teams and the records which Sachin were creating. This all again changed when you took charge of Indian Cricket team and started winning trophies for us with not just your shots but also with Mind.

Have you ever read something about iceberg ? The part we see of Ice above the water is nothing compared to what lies below the water. You appear something like a iceberg on the cricket ground, serene, simple and silent from outside but a bigger picture is already created in your mind which is visible in your actions and later in outcome of the matches. Those were favorite moments when you run on the ground with stumps in your hand after winning the match.

It’s always a treat to watch you playing. I am not a big fan of anybody not even yours but I will always be thankful to you for giving me the memories and stories which no other personality has given in my lifetime till date and also for keeping the spirit of sports and cricket alive in the people of our country.

You will surely be missed as our Captain Mr, Mahendra Singh Dhoni.

Girl’s Best Friend

Friendship is the most vulnerable relationship that exists, it is most loved and even more hated kind of connection. You become friends easily and at times friends become worst foes people have ever seen. It’s difficult to understand the real depth of friendship if you are not actually a part of it. But there is kind of I know is more complex than any of which exists a “Girl – Boy Best Friendship”.

I we see it from the perspective of a boy they are mostly misunderstood as the girl’s boy friend. Sometimes they behave too girly too and mostly they end up doing all the tasks which in general scenario should be shared between two people. But this is just the panorama of a observer whereas reality is quite different.

A girl’s best boy friend (GBBF) is a unique species who has resolution to all the queries that comes in his friends mind howsoever silly, intellectual, technical or philosophical it is and if he is not able to do that by himself atleast he diverts the attention in which he awesome.

He never gets judgmental about the type of ball that is going to fall in his court from other end and he has all the tools to handle each and every one of them in most suitable and best possible way. They usually have an non-certified PHD in convincing their friends and converting the sadness in to smile.

A best friend is like single opening Pandora boxes which just accepts things and information and keeps it to them howsoever torture they face even in case of severe stomach aches. A word NO is deleted from their dictionary because even  if it exists its use will be worthless.

These are just a few thing which a GBBF does in return they share a strong connection between them which is only understood by the two of them.

Although they never share the physical connection between them but the souls and minds are connected the way it can’t be with anyone. They carry their relation in a very clean and pure manner which is beyond understanding of outside world or sometimes even their life partners.

We all are always in search of that one person who understand us they way we do ourselves, and when  a girl meets their GBBF’s that search ends post which starts the great saga of friendship and its stories which remains with them for all of their lives weather they remain connected or not.

There is no book to make someone your best friend nor even there are any rules, a girl can’t try to make a boy their best boy friend and a boy can’t act as being the one if he is not, They are just born to meet and be best friends.

You may fall in love many times, you will meet lot of people in a lifetime, the times will change and someday maybe the world will disappear for you, the stars will disappear for you but your best friend will always be there at outreach of your hand and if not then their memories will be enough to make you feel the most prized possession of whole universe.

Delhi: The First love

A poet once said “ Kaun jae Zauq, par dilli ki galiyan chodkar” , I never tried to search for its real meaning although I figured out my version for this phrase “Once you have lived in Delhi you will never be able to leave this place even if you do, it always stays with you”.

I have travelled almost one third of India in last few years and there was one common view which people had nobody likes Delhi specially those who have never been to Delhi or NCR, few were those also who used to live in capital once and now moved out they also have lot of complaints and comparison.

I never tried to argue with their thought about it, It was their perception, maybe they haven’t seen what I have felt. Or maybe the media and social network has succeeded in their act of defaming our beautiful city.

I Love Delhi, I was not born here , I don’t live their anymore , I don’t have list of reasons to justify my love for it , I just do it and miss it terribly. And howsoever I travel , relocate to best cities, meet new people I still can’t get that love out of my heart.

When I try to contemplate the reasons for it I remember the first time I fell in love and how it happened.

It happened just like that and nothing else in whole world matters at that time, we never judge the person with whom we fall in love and just follow our heart everything looks so contended even if it is hollow to outside world. Looks , future, job, family nothing comes in mind the only feelings that engulfs us  is our love , and that feeling stays with us forever howsoever more love we get in life but it always keep that special place within us.

That’s how loving Delhi is, we don’t judge it by its traffic, politics, weather, people or markets you fall in love with its soul after which nothing else matters.

The Flight of love

“Love at first sight” this statement has always been hyped too much, irrespective of that fact that does anything like this exists or not. As per my point of view it doesn’t.

As if you see a person and realize at the same moment of your life that she is the one with whom you want to have kids with. You can’t see a person match its cast, religion, family career and future and if it doesn’t match you decide that you can’t fly in love with her hence no connection.

It doesn’t works like this, not at all.

It’s a complete process which eventually turns out to be flying in love.

You meet and talk with someone post which a connection develops between the two that too to jus because of the way she loves life, talks, how she treats the world and most importantly you.

Later the connection transforms itself in to a friendship and then best friendship. During  all this time if the bonding grows stronger with each flying day and connection keep persists then you starts flying in love and not in a moment ,slowly and steadily.

Once it happens then world remind you of the parameters for being in love but by that time both of you have flown too far and high crossing the mountains and the clouds. Now only option left to us either reach for the moon leaving the world behind or fall in love….

                                                                                                                                                Dervish

The Fall...

It’s amazing to be in love.

Or as the world says to fall in love, you seem to be feeling the cold breeze and droplets of water touching your face while you are falling, we seem to enjoy every bit of that moment unaware of the fact what outcome the impact will bring. But then the journey seems so mesmerizing that nobody  cares of the destination, but it surely feels as if there is heaven down there.

In love the heart never stops beating twice than its normal pace , those random smiles started coming very often that too without any reason. Singing songs become more frequent and sometime you start jumping on the road while walking. 

We don’t realize what is happening with us, lot of questions, queries and confusion starts to pop up in our minds, the more we try to find out its solution the more heart starts beating. After sometime we realize that there is just one answer to all of this its time.

Everyone who has touched the ground has their own way or perception of describing the reality of love weather its heaven or hell or just another regular place. But I believe it’s always best to make your own stories, live through your own experiences rather than learning from  someone else's.

             Let’s fall in love, let’s do it together,

                      A fall of lifetime ….

               If you feel fear I will hold your hand,

         If you will feel cold I’ll give you my warmth,

         If obstacles come to you ill face them first…

                I will never let you get thirst…

            You just open your eyes and fall by my side,

                  And keep the whole world aside.

                      Lets fall in love ,

                    let’s do it together…..