It was not a regular Saturday,Its Valentine week and a sad
kind of feeling has surrounded Subi since morning she is feeling so alone from
last few days and specially today. It was not like this when they started dating,
Hrithik used to wait for hours outside
Subi’s office building so that once she finishes off with her work and come out they can go out for late night
movies and ice creams on chilling winter nights, and the weekend always felt shorter because of the fun they
do in those two days. Nothing can be more romantic than what was shared between
those two at that time, but things have taken a U turn in last couple of
months. The other side of the hedge is not greener anymore its just cold
winters , lonely weekends and lot of silence between Subi and Hrithik.
Her mind was banging like anything thinking about all the
anger and fights they both do now , love was nowhere seen between those two
anymore , although she never wanted it to be this way after all he was her
first love and the most amazing moments of her life till now was spent with him
only. But she doesn’t feel that important to him anymore, he has got busy
and changed a lot in last couple of
months whereas she is still waiting for a scoop of ice-cream after her office
and couple of hours of his time during the weekends.
But the wait is not ending and the anger and hatred grows
inside her with each day passing lying
in her bed thinking about all the memories and tapping on phone, She desperately wanted to talk to someone so she sent a text to her most trusted
friend Akash,
“I am so much irritated ,sad and bored , Hrithik doesn’t
give me time anymore.He has changed so much and I don’t know what to do ? ”
The reply which she received from him was one of the best
and motivating things she has read in a very very long time,
Akash Said,
“Life is a continuous flux ,everything is changing and what
doesn’t change becomes stale.
This applied to human beings also and so does to love and
relationships, It is very simple to understand. When you started loving you
both were too young , with no experience; how can your love remains the same when now you have
become a mature person ? Your love will also attain to some maturity, And when
you will be old your love will have a different flavor to it. As relationship
grows the depth and maturity of it can’t just be measured on basis of how much
time you spend together rather than on how much you mean to each other. It might
be a possibility that things have changed to much too fast in that case it
gives you the chance to show him your love by being understanding , loving ,caring
and by letting him do the things he wants and remember that this is also a phase
which will pass. And one day it will be beautiful again, but it will always
have ups and down it will have changes and not in just him but in yourself
also. Always remember that for a lighter
and playful relationship you should have
lot of patience and empathy for your
partner.”
And that night Subi slept Peacefully.
This Valentines day,
Tear down the house of you Ego, Give your love one more chance.
Do not fuss or fight
and get everything right.
Forget all the worries and create beautiful memories.
This Valentines day.
Lets Create Love, Lets fly in Love, Lets fall in love, Lets lost
in Love.
