Friendship is the most vulnerable relationship that exists,
it is most loved and even more hated kind of connection. You become friends
easily and at times friends become worst foes people have ever seen. It’s
difficult to understand the real depth of friendship if you are not actually a
part of it. But there is kind of I know is more complex than any of which
exists a “Girl – Boy Best Friendship”.
I we see it from the perspective of a boy they are mostly
misunderstood as the girl’s boy friend. Sometimes they behave too girly too and
mostly they end up doing all the tasks which in general scenario should be
shared between two people. But this is just the panorama of a observer whereas
reality is quite different.
A girl’s best boy friend (GBBF) is a unique species who has
resolution to all the queries that comes in his friends mind howsoever silly, intellectual,
technical or philosophical it is and if he is not able to do that by himself atleast
he diverts the attention in which he awesome.
He never gets judgmental about the type of ball that is
going to fall in his court from other end and he has all the tools to handle
each and every one of them in most suitable and best possible way. They usually
have an non-certified PHD in convincing their friends and converting the sadness
in to smile.
A best friend is like single opening Pandora boxes which
just accepts things and information and keeps it to them howsoever torture they
face even in case of severe stomach aches. A word NO is deleted from their dictionary
because even if it exists its use will
be worthless.
These are just a few thing which a GBBF does in return they
share a strong connection between them which is only understood by the two of
them.
Although they never share the physical connection between
them but the souls and minds are connected the way it can’t be with anyone. They
carry their relation in a very clean and pure manner which is beyond
understanding of outside world or sometimes even their life partners.
We all are always in search of that one person who
understand us they way we do ourselves, and when a girl meets their GBBF’s that search ends post which starts the great saga of friendship and its stories which
remains with them for all of their lives weather they remain connected or not.
There is no book to make someone your best friend nor even there
are any rules, a girl can’t try to make a boy their best boy friend and a boy can’t
act as being the one if he is not, They are just born to meet and be best
friends.
You may fall in love many times, you will meet lot of people
in a lifetime, the times will change and someday maybe the world will disappear
for you, the stars will disappear for you but your best friend will always be there at
outreach of your hand and if not then their memories will be enough to make you feel
the most prized possession of whole universe.
